Hello my dear friends!
Recently I was given a homework to read a rather challenging article about sexual harassment at work in France ("French flirt at work" by Brigitte Janin) ,so that today I am going to share with all of you my thoughts on this issue.
Firstly,I consider having an affair with a colleague or a boss to be not a bad idea ,if there is some evidence of real feelings to each other.To my mind,all colleagues and bosses are simple people who can love deeply and truely,notwithstanding their status at work .But forcing somebody to having sex against the will ,using gender superiority is absolutely another thing that should not be concerned as any kind of serious relationship.It is humiliation ,in fact.Some people say that there is nothing bad if some colleague touches your back when you are dressed seductively.In their point of view ,it is your fault ,your way of showing that you are ready for having some fun.I assume that in such justifications dress-code shoud be worked out ,because "seductive appearence "is quite an objective notion.I think that shoulders and hands are the only parts of a female body that colleagues are allowed to touch.
Brigitte Janin made her colleagues remove some photos ,calendars and other things that provoked women to sex at work .She was the only woman in men's department and clearly felt uneasy in such atmosphere.I understand Brigitte' urge to get rid of the things somehow related to sex ,because she worked there as an aerodynamics engineer,not as a floozy.As I have alredy siad a seductive dress is a very objective thing,it is in man's mind to consider somebody's appearance seductive ,so if one certain man wants a woman, he can be seduced by simple trousers and a shirt. I guess the problem is in man's perception of a woman he wants.Some nude calendars make the matters worse.To tell the truth ,a woman should be always aware of her clothing ,because any vulgar skirt or tights may be seen as a signal to be ready for some new infatuations.
Can men be harassed by women?No,I guess .I personally do not know any woman who has so odd intentions towards men.May be there some exceptions....some weird...psychologically unstable women..
Fortunately,I have never been under such conditions ,and I will do my best not to find myself under them.
Hope it was fascinating !
Look forward to your questions!
Recently I was given a homework to read a rather challenging article about sexual harassment at work in France ("French flirt at work" by Brigitte Janin) ,so that today I am going to share with all of you my thoughts on this issue.
Firstly,I consider having an affair with a colleague or a boss to be not a bad idea ,if there is some evidence of real feelings to each other.To my mind,all colleagues and bosses are simple people who can love deeply and truely,notwithstanding their status at work .But forcing somebody to having sex against the will ,using gender superiority is absolutely another thing that should not be concerned as any kind of serious relationship.It is humiliation ,in fact.Some people say that there is nothing bad if some colleague touches your back when you are dressed seductively.In their point of view ,it is your fault ,your way of showing that you are ready for having some fun.I assume that in such justifications dress-code shoud be worked out ,because "seductive appearence "is quite an objective notion.I think that shoulders and hands are the only parts of a female body that colleagues are allowed to touch.
Brigitte Janin made her colleagues remove some photos ,calendars and other things that provoked women to sex at work .She was the only woman in men's department and clearly felt uneasy in such atmosphere.I understand Brigitte' urge to get rid of the things somehow related to sex ,because she worked there as an aerodynamics engineer,not as a floozy.As I have alredy siad a seductive dress is a very objective thing,it is in man's mind to consider somebody's appearance seductive ,so if one certain man wants a woman, he can be seduced by simple trousers and a shirt. I guess the problem is in man's perception of a woman he wants.Some nude calendars make the matters worse.To tell the truth ,a woman should be always aware of her clothing ,because any vulgar skirt or tights may be seen as a signal to be ready for some new infatuations.
Can men be harassed by women?No,I guess .I personally do not know any woman who has so odd intentions towards men.May be there some exceptions....some weird...psychologically unstable women..
Fortunately,I have never been under such conditions ,and I will do my best not to find myself under them.
Hope it was fascinating !
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